For survivors of sexual abuse, the legal process can be daunting—especially when it comes to participating in a deposition. This step in the lawsuit may seem intimidating, but understanding what happens during a sexual abuse deposition can help reduce anxiety and prepare you for what lies ahead. This blog will explore all areas of the deposition, how to prepare and what to expect. At Shrader & Associates L.L.P., we support survivors with compassion and clarity every step of the way. This information is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice.
What Is a Deposition in a Sexual Abuse Case?
A deposition is a formal interview where you provide sworn testimony outside of the courtroom. This means you’ll answer questions under oath, and your responses will be recorded—either through a written transcript or video. Depositions often take place in a law office rather than a courtroom.
The people typically present include your attorney, the opposing attorney and a court reporter. In some cases, a videographer may also be present. You’ll be asked questions about your experiences, but you will not be alone—your attorney will sit beside you, ensuring your rights and well-being are protected throughout.
Why Depositions Matter in Sexual Abuse Lawsuits
Depositions are a crucial part of the legal process in sexual abuse cases. They allow both sides to gather facts, understand each other’s position and assess the strength of the case. Your deposition helps paint a clearer picture of what happened and how it impacted your life. This step can influence whether a case will be going to trial or would be better resolved through a settlement.
While giving testimony can feel vulnerable, your courage helps bring your truth to light—and your legal team will be there to ensure that happens respectfully and safely.
How to Prepare for Your Deposition
Preparation is one of the most important steps in easing the stress of a deposition. Your sexual abuse attorney will work closely with you ahead of time to ensure you feel ready and supported.
- Review key documents together: Your attorney will go over materials related to your case, such as medical records, therapy notes, police reports, emails or journal entries. Understanding the timeline and details helps ground you in your own narrative.
- Practice potential questions: You’ll walk through the types of questions the opposing attorney might ask. This rehearsal helps you feel more confident in how to respond clearly, calmly and truthfully—even when discussing sensitive or emotional topics.
- Address emotional concerns upfront: If there are specific triggers or fears you have about the process, now is the time to share them. Your attorney can help develop a personalized plan—whether that includes requesting breaks or having a support person nearby.
What to Expect During the Deposition Itself
The setting is usually calm and professional, with a round-table feel rather than a confrontational courtroom atmosphere. Once you’re sworn in, the opposing attorney will begin asking you questions while the court reporter transcribes your answers.
You’ll be asked to answer truthfully and clearly. You can take your time to respond, and it’s perfectly okay to ask for clarification or to say you don’t remember something. Your attorney will be there to object to inappropriate or irrelevant questions and to guide you as needed.
You are allowed to take breaks. Emotional reactions are completely normal, and your well-being remains the top priority throughout the process.
The Types of Questions You Might Be Asked
It’s helpful to know that the questions you’ll face in a sexual assault deposition typically fall into a few categories:
Your Background
You may be asked about your education, work history, relationships or family life to provide context.
The Abuse Itself
The attorney will ask about the details of the abuse—what happened, when, where and how. This can prove difficult for obvious reasons, but you don’t have to recall every tiny detail, plus your attorney can help if questions become too intrusive.
The Impact of the Abuse
You may be asked how the abuse has affected your mental, emotional, or physical health and how it has changed your life. This can include therapy, medical treatment or how the abuse has impacted your work or your relationships – personal and professional.
Remember, you do not have to answer any question your attorney deems inappropriate or irrelevant. You’re allowed to say, “I don’t know,” or “I don’t remember,” if that’s the honest truth.
Staying Grounded and Centered During the Deposition
It’s completely normal to feel anxious before and during your deposition. Here are a few things to keep in mind:
Honesty is Key
Your answers don’t need to be perfect—only truthful. Don’t guess or speculate. If you’re unsure, say so.
Emotional Well-Being Comes First
If you start to feel overwhelmed, ask for a break. Your attorney can pause the deposition at any point to give you space to breathe or regroup.
Trust Your Legal Team
One of the most important aspects of this process is having a knowledgeable and empathetic attorney by your side. Your legal team is there to shield you from harm and ensure you’re treated with dignity.
What Happens After the Deposition?
Once the deposition is complete, a transcript will be prepared and reviewed by your attorney for accuracy. This testimony becomes part of the case record and may be used during trial or settlement negotiations.
The deposition is not the end of your legal journey—it’s just one step. Your attorney will continue working with you on strategy, advocacy and support as your case progresses.
Why Legal Representation Is So Important
Having the right legal representation during a sexual abuse lawsuit can make all the difference. At Shrader & Associates L.L.P., we’ve represented survivors in all types of abuse cases—from school sexual abuse and summer camp abuse to massage therapy abuse and more.
We approach every case with compassion, discretion, and a deep commitment to justice. We understand the trauma that survivors carry, and we fight to make sure their voices are heard—and believed.
We are here to guide you, protect you, and fight for the justice you deserve. Whether you’re navigating your first legal step or preparing for a deposition, we will be with you every step of the way.
If you’re ready to speak with a trusted attorney about your case, or if you have questions about suing for sexual abuse, we invite you to